2/28/2005 09:58:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|A very fickle feline has decided to take a 2 week break starting tomorrow, instead of closing it down. For 2 whole weeks, I'll keep all my thoughts to myself, which will probably be very difficult. And if you see me on the street twitching, look away politely - it's just blogging withdrawal symptoms. I'll blog in my private blog now and then... you know the password.
Forgive me for being so fickle? I cannot imagine life without my blog and you guys.
Amazing what a pint of Heineken can do for your soul.
So, the whole point of my hiatus is not because I'm hurt by the things said during the last few days. If you had noticed, for every bad apple, there were 20 good. I think those are pretty good statistics yes? And I cannot believe how supportive you were, even more so than some of my real life friends. Thanks for all your emails and smses! Kisses to all of you! Oops, I take that back, sekali people say I'm slutty because I freely give away my kisses.
Huh, see! I can make jokes about my situation.
At many points in my life, I have learnt about life through experiences. What did I learn this time? I still stand by what I believe, I'm not afraid to say what I think and I must learn not to care what other people think.
The person who inspired this hiatus, I trusted you hence my openness towards you. I thank you for teaching me a great lesson about not trusting someone too easily. These are things I'd never learn in a lecture theatre. And thank you for being a complete wuss today.
My back has healed completely! So off to the gym I go tomorrow for kickboxing!
And now, I leave you with an email from Mr. Fansy.
Dear FF,
How are you doing darling? I know you don't want to answer my calls, but I miss your voice. Please don't be angry. Be happy ok so that very soon you will start answering my calls again.
May you have a lot of joy in your life!!!! I will call you soon!!!
Yours faithfully,
Mr. Fansy
|W|P|110960380289623904|W|P|See You In Two Weeks!|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com3/01/2005 01:45:00 AM|W|P| Unknown|W|P|Come back soon, the chest starers and the contrary opinions will still be there when you get back, but come back anyway. :)
I will keep your blog subscribed on my RSS reader.3/01/2005 07:28:00 AM|W|P| Vera|W|P|yay!
take care and see u in 2 weeks :)3/01/2005 12:43:00 PM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Take the break that you need luv.
Just don't pull an Ericka Cat on us. How is she BTW?
Meeeeeeeow3/01/2005 01:11:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Give me Fansy's number. This idiot is really getting on my nerve!3/01/2005 01:47:00 PM|W|P| eyes|W|P|Yay!
Very glad that you are only taking a 2 week break instead of a permanent one :)
Your blog is one of the few that I read on a regular basis.
Will be sad if its not around anymore >.<3/01/2005 01:58:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|I'm glad that you're reconsidering closing down your blog. Come back soon! :)3/02/2005 10:22:00 AM|W|P| MDFK|W|P|Cats have 9 life !!!
Keep biting !3/02/2005 10:32:00 AM|W|P| JellyGirl|W|P|Have a good break, come back soon!3/02/2005 04:12:00 PM|W|P| Sheena|W|P|I'm glad, having Calm One close down his blog then was a traumatic enough experience that I don't want to relive. It should be made a criminal offence for good blogs to be shut down.3/03/2005 10:25:00 AM|W|P| Lam's Creation|W|P|Will patiently wait for your return3/07/2005 10:50:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|2 weeks liao buay?.....3/08/2005 02:51:00 PM|W|P| Lam's Creation|W|P|Your 2 weeks absence seems like *AGES* ...2/28/2005 05:46:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|
|W|P|110958404577071221|W|P|Misery Loves Company|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/28/2005 11:20:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|Trust
n.
Firm reliance on the integrity, ability, or character of a person or thing.
This blogging thing makes us trust people more easily.
We know what goes on in their lives, they know what goes on in our lives.
We meet up once or twice and presume we are friends.
We SMS and MSN and we assume that what was said is confidential.
Apparently not, as some people are not trustworthy.
Not only do they blab what you tell them, they post it for the whole world to see and sometimes they twist the stories.
This wasn't only from my experience, but I have heard of many cases from other bloggers.
Sigh. The complexities of life really do wear one down.
I'm tired of blogging and certain bloggers.
It's not you, it's me.
It's over.
This blog will be taken down in two days. Please remove your link to my blog.
It was fun while it lasted. Really.
|W|P|110956182218301082|W|P|Goodbye|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/28/2005 12:24:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|???
!!!
:(2/28/2005 01:03:00 PM|W|P| Vera|W|P|NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Another blogicide :(
I'll miss reading you.
I hope you will find Mr. Right soon.2/28/2005 01:05:00 PM|W|P| Vera|W|P|oh i forgot..
All the best to you!
:(2/28/2005 01:13:00 PM|W|P| Mr Miyagi|W|P|Why two days? Take it down now lah! Hee.2/28/2005 01:29:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Ah 9>> It's been more than a year... sian already.
Fat Fingers>> Thanks sweetie. I wish you and boyfriend well.
Migs>> You can stop visiting my blog now lah!2/28/2005 01:33:00 PM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|I'm gonna miss you ...
MAY THE FLEAS OF A THOUSAND CAIRO STRAY DOGS INFEST THE NETHER REGIONS OF THE PERSON(S) WHO MADE YOU DO THIS.2/28/2005 01:35:00 PM|W|P| Vera|W|P|must add on to Noodle's quote.. may that person's hands be too short to scratch. muahaha2/28/2005 01:36:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Nobody made me do this, baby. I will miss you too. :) If you and L ever break up, give me a call ah.2/28/2005 02:16:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Oh no~~~
I'm sad that you're going to close down this blog. I really am. =(
Take care now. :)2/28/2005 02:17:00 PM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|I cannot believe this. My suay-ness has extended from my handphone's demise to my poor soccer punting performance to the jinx-ing of FF to blog-cide. Just seconds after I add your link to my blog, I saw your blog-cide note. I'm very convinced that I'm the jinx responsible for this blogicide. So stone me. Take care FF.]2/28/2005 03:20:00 PM|W|P| MDFK|W|P|That's a pity.
Rest in Peace Kitty.
Choy ! Not u lah , the blog lah2/28/2005 04:14:00 PM|W|P| aMuse|W|P|Aw man!!! How come people always leave when I just discover them?!?!? Am starting to think I cursed!2/28/2005 04:15:00 PM|W|P| aMuse|W|P|Anyways, visit me sometimes when you free eh?2/28/2005 05:59:00 PM|W|P| cheeky|W|P|Yo woman, I will miss u. Take care.2/28/2005 06:19:00 PM|W|P| Ryanson|W|P|WHAT HAPPEN?! Nvm, you can tell me over pool and beer.2/28/2005 08:40:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|I think we should form a bloggers' petition to stop you, FF from blogicide. Then again, maybe just take a break from it and come back when you feel okay again (I know you will come back one). Hope to see you return.3/02/2005 12:09:00 AM|W|P| Lam's Creation|W|P|Tell me who betray you and i get a couple of my bigger size students hammer the bugger ...3/02/2005 12:38:00 PM|W|P| Jankliciouz|W|P|Kinda sad tt you're going to close down the blog. Will miss reading you. =(
xoxo Jank2/28/2005 08:43:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|I couldn't get to sleep last night because I had slept 12 hours the night before. I took comfort in the fact that someone else at the other end of the world was probably tossing and turning in his bed too - Steven Gerrard. Tsk tsk, I had really wanted Liverpool to win.
Hey, I finally found the song "Once in a Lifetime", but it's Sarah Brightman's version. My er... sister had the er.. original CD all along and so I borrowed it from her. Yup, that's what I did. And nope, I'd never download the MP3 because we should all support original music and try to put an end to piracy.
Earlier, I opened my inbox and there were 30+ emails. Most of the junk email I received were porn links to moms! Wet moms, creamy moms, hot moms, dripping moms... I mean, jeez, define porn with moms in them? Will there be a baby crying in the background while she's shagging away? Or will the baby be suckling her?
|W|P|110955247553674362|W|P|Sleepless in Singapore|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/28/2005 10:10:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|He's going off, isn't he? Even the match commentator hinted bout the possible rumour. :P2/28/2005 10:14:00 AM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|Thanks ah, you ALMOST destroyed my love of porn with those replusive mental images. ALMOST.
Stevie G was on the take. You will see him at Chelski next season and then he will admit he did it on purpose.
But jesus, letting in a goal from a throw-in. Cannot make it.2/27/2005 06:11:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|All in all, this was a most interesting weekend, what with my previous posts and all your related posts and comments. Most of all, I've learnt that posts with the C word in it can garner many many readers cos my hits increased by 20% this weekend. Aiya! I will not mention the C word here again, because as much as I like having readers, I'd prefer to keep a low profile.
I will try to be more boring from now on and very much less controversial.
I am cranky today because I didn't get to go to the gym. I miss working out, but my back prohibits that as it's still aching.
I went to Balaclava last night for a pint of Hoegaarden. The Hoegaarden's really good there because it's on tap, unlike most of the pubs here which serve you bottled Hoegaarden. It was a bit flat (most beers on tap are so), but so cold and refreshing. One downside is that the drinks are expensive. $13 per half pint not cheap you know! Luckily I was there during happy hours though, so I got a pint for $13.
After that, we headed to Zee 10 for the first time ever. I heard Zoe Tay opened this place? It had a big screen TV and comfy couches for you to lounge around in. The music's really good too - George Michael, Enigma and Gregorian. Great to hang out with your pals. Can someone please send me the Gregorian song or give me the title? It's that really nice one... ugh... I cannot remember the title, but it was famous once upon a time.
Before midnight, we were yawning and left just after midnight.
I felt old, especially when I saw my ex colleague there (past 50 years old), wallking past while energetically talking to her pals. I hope I'll still be having a good time when I'm past 50.
Update:
Ok ok, my last words on the previous topic.
Please see Mr. Migs' post about the issue to learn a bit about some of the laws in Singapore.
So don't come and give me crap about how I made a big deal out of the issue because what he did WAS against the law. If it's not a big deal, then why is it an offence in the Penal Code huh?
So ladies, if ever this happens to you, tell the perv that you will charge him under sect 13B of the Misc. Offences Act Chap. 184 or sect 509 of the Penal Code.
Do remember to pronounce Penal properly though.
|W|P|110950195477961766|W|P|Weekend's Almost Over|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/27/2005 07:14:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|where's zee10? i never heard of it...maybe im a little sua-ku.
u checked ur mail?2/27/2005 07:49:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Millenia walk. Near Paulaner.
Checked and replied.:)2/27/2005 09:06:00 PM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|I never heard of zee10 either.
u checked your mail? :)2/27/2005 09:13:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Jim>> I was watching soccer on the big screen at Zee 10 yesterday. And no one went on the stage to sing, neither did i see ah peks and ah sohs.
Indian>> Checked and did your request.2/27/2005 10:49:00 PM|W|P| Tym|W|P|If your back hurts, maybe try a light yoga or pilates class instead of a workout? Then at least you feel like you're doing something, not just skipping the gym altogether :)2/27/2005 10:53:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Good to hear that the case is now closed. Lets hope he learnt the lesson.2/27/2005 11:16:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Is the song 'Losing my Religion' ?2/27/2005 11:32:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Dang. I didn't go to the gym either. I need to go for a run!2/27/2005 11:44:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Tym, I'm not too keen on yoga because I cannot stretch. Must work out more first.
Darren>> hope so too.
lao zi>> Isn't that by REM?
Zenith>> Gym more fun. got aircon. :)2/28/2005 12:27:00 AM|W|P| cour marly|W|P|Sadeness by Enigma, methinks.2/28/2005 01:42:00 AM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|Yeah..Balaclava is great..especially during happy hours. But damn hard to get a seat even during weekdays.
And the Gregorian song that was famous once upon a time, I think, is my Mambo Jumbo favourite number, "Once In A Lifetime".
The one that goes "When I realise, theres no telling lies, when I know you once in a lifetime".
I do have the mp3 if you really want it. Although I have the original CD which I burnt it from. To distribute it would be against copyright laws.. :(2/28/2005 01:58:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Cour, I downloaded Sadness, but it's not it.
Triple>> You're absolutely spot on! I'm trying to get it downloaded on Kazaa, but to no ado. Email me at softbrownfur at yahoo dot com if you have time. :)2/28/2005 10:49:00 AM|W|P| PP|W|P|I was just thinking that... is it pronounced peeenal or paaanal?2/28/2005 11:38:00 AM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|peee-nal
And will someone tell the radio DJs in Singapore that "petrol" is pronounced "pet troll" and not "per troll".3/04/2005 01:21:00 AM|W|P| miss_kindakinky|W|P|Beat this. I had my butt grabbed by some middle-aged bespectacled man while I was walking pass the Guess outlet in Taka, and all I could do was just gawk at him for a full 20 seconds, before watching him disappear into the crowd. Majority of my friends (male friends especially)blamed it on me for wearing a mini-skirt. At least you did something about it... I wish I had the sense to.2/27/2005 02:11:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|Are all of you sick of the cleavage issue yet? I am, but I read with much annoyance Platypus' post.
Read it and perhaps you'll be annoyed too.
"But FF, you were out drinking, talking about cleavage, with your mammaries on proud display for the world. You didn’t have them on display for yourself, unless you are a self-obsessed, self preening little feline, you had your cleavage on display for guys to look.
So he looked. (The photos were wrong. But don’t you think your reaction is a little finicky?)"
Who are you to presume things? You were not there, and you assumed so many things to make your blog entry more interesting. Well, here are the facts:
1) I was out drinking yes. And I may have said I was joking about cleavages or something, but I just called Kitten to ask him what I was joking about because I cannot for the life of me remember. And the conclusion was, I MADE NO JOKES ABOUT CLEAVAGES and the fella just started snapping away. I had thought I must have said something about cleavages to warrant such odd behavior, but I DID NOT. And even if I did, the most lewd cleavage comment I would make in the presence of A COMPLETE STRANGER would be that girls' cleavage sizes drop when they start working out a lot. Oh, that wasn't a joke was it? But that is the furthest I would go.
2) My mammaries were on proud display for the world? Hmmm, kinda hard considering I was wearing the non-exposing Tshirt (which I had to dig out from my laundry basket, hence the creases) below:
Wah, this shirt made me my mammaries nearly pop out. I so deserved to have pictures of my cleavage taken. I am such a slut in this shirt! But hey, surprise surprise! The most you can see when I wear this shirt is a slight hint of cleavage. Or even not. I promise to wear a tudung and baju kurung the next time I go out.
But even, if I talked about cleavages or had my mammaries on show, that does not give you the right to think that just because I did, perhaps I deserved what I got.
And Migs, if a girl comes over drunk to your house, would you take advantage of the situation? No right? Because you know how to behave. Inappropriate behaviour does NOT have to beget inappropriate behaviour. We are all people who have morals and ethics and talking about cleavages or wearing sexy clothes is not inappropriate behaviour.
Oh one more!!
"And I really can't help but wonder if the guy had been "handsome, over 170cm, over 70kg and earned more than 3K a month" would the story have been different. "
How did you know he wasn't over 170cm, over 70kg and earned more than 3K a month? Perhaps he's all that and if he is, are you implying that I wouldn't have minded his photo taking?
It's MCPs like you who make the world a nasty place to live in. You really should be ashamed of yourself.
Edit:
No more talk about cleavages please! I will hantam anyone who breathes the C word to me again.
|W|P|110948651962367290|W|P|Strikes Back|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/27/2005 12:41:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|...when I said I need a break from guys.
There are many instances when I regret not doing something. Today was one of them. I was at Taka waiting for my friend to pick me up when I had to pee. So, off to the toilet I went. When I came out, I saw the most beautiful being surrounded by chicks. I was stunned and my reaction was to walk away coolly.
I went up to wait at the second floor and deeply regretted not talking to the beautiful being. How could I walk away just like that? I mentally whacked myself. So I went back and talked to him. I swooned and nearly fainted. I asked him if I could take a picture with him and everybody laughed and he explained the joke to me saying the previous chick asked if she could take a picture of him and not with him so he just wanted to make sure.
I know I'm being very teeny boppish, but I heart you.
Constantine? Whossat?
|W|P|110943805726254720|W|P|I Spoke Too Soon...|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/27/2005 02:28:00 AM|W|P| Papigiulio|W|P|Hey!!! Show ur face. rahhh ..../me dies!! But im happy for ya you could take a picture ;)2/27/2005 02:30:00 AM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|You actually took a photo with Sylvester outside a Taka toilet eh? Did you ask whether you can compare with Maia? Hehe.2/27/2005 03:29:00 AM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Well, it's not everyday that you get to meet your "idol" so it's good that you took your chance or else this entry would be about regret instead.2/27/2005 04:35:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Aiyo you too!? I suffer such paralysis too when I see a star.
I met several and usually am tongue tied. I just look and smile and say nothing. I did this years ago when I saw Michael Jackson (pre weird and surgery days)Also with David Bowie, Mick Jagger and also film stars I'd pass by when shopping in downtown Chicago. I just paralyze for some reason. Shock perhaps.2/27/2005 09:06:00 AM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|I seriously cannot understand the obsession that young nubile gals have about him.
*green with envy*2/27/2005 10:04:00 AM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|ha.. good for you.. he is always around taka area.. maybe you can stalk the place again ?2/27/2005 10:05:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|he's beautiful? then my leg hairs are luscious and silky. Hee hee
=D2/27/2005 12:59:00 PM|W|P| Guojun|W|P|Good going babe. Your months of stalking finally paid off. Haha2/27/2005 02:43:00 PM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|Eh, typo lah.
"beautiful beng", not "being".2/26/2005 02:09:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|Guys, thanks for your support. If it weren't for you, I'd never have had the guts to go to the police station. But before I arrived, I talked to Kitten and everything is settled. The fella even called my gf E to tell her the photos have been deleted.
I just wanted to make it clear that nobody is allowed to do this kind of thing. This is a serious issue and we girls should never take it lying down. There are enough Dick Chans in Singapore to last us a lifetime and we certainly don't need one more.
I deleted his name from the previous entry because I think I have served him enough warning that what he did was very wrong.
And yes, you cannot be responsible for everything your friend does, but you can act responsibly as a friend. I'm glad you did the right thing in the end and I'm sorry to have to put you in an awkward situation, but I'm just standing up for what I believe in. If my friend ever put you in such a position, you can rest assured that I'll be there for you.
I honestly need a break from guys.|W|P|110939917888818357|W|P|The Aftermath|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/26/2005 02:42:00 PM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|You need to take a break from "guys" and find someone who is a "man", and therefore will treat you correctly and as you deserve.2/26/2005 03:56:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Good on you for standing up for yourself. No wonder you're the female pai kia.
That guy is such a dumbass.2/26/2005 04:30:00 PM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|And maybe you just have a great set of breasts that he wished to remember...~grin~2/26/2005 04:40:00 PM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|What kind of sick bastard is that? Or maybe he just wants to get your attention by being the arsehole. Its better to be hated deeply than to be ignored, u noe? Some people just adore the attention and probably did not think that you were "that mad" at him when he did that. But still, irregardless of his motives. I only have one word... "LOSER".2/26/2005 08:09:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|Yeah you did the right thing, but did you proceed to report the incident? I think it must have been rather disturbing even if he deleted the pics he took.2/26/2005 09:06:00 PM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|Like Bubbles, I read the past few posts only today, due to work commitments.
I hope that you've gotten over the incident. That asshole should have his eyeballs gouged out with a rusty spoon, doused with petrol and set on fire.2/27/2005 12:58:00 AM|W|P| urbanmalebitch|W|P|I agree with Tripleperiod. Sick bastard. Probably jerked off with a copy of 8 Days when he was younger.
Anyway, no point going to police station. They will not do anything. A year ago, my younger brother got beat up by a group of ah bengs. When he caught the beng that beat him, and even reported to the police, they did nothing. Just took down IC. Said that if he wanted to charge him in court, gotta go through the hassle of subordinate courts. And incur lawyer fees. Fucking useless men in blue.2/27/2005 01:16:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|You guys are so sweet.
Anyway, I think he won't do such a thing again. Kitten did the right thing in the end, and everything's ok now.
Let's all forget this incident.
Muaks.2/26/2005 01:02:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|I pulled a back muscle. The first question that was asked when I told people I pulled a muscle was "Wah, acrobatic sex ah?". I wish. It was actually from a high impact aerobics class, which I'm obviously not fit enough for. We were doing butt crunches or tummy crunches or some kind of crunchy exercise when this happened. Please refrain from posting funny posts in the next two days because laughter causes my muscle to tighten and it hurts like a bitch.
My gf E came over and we had dinner at a coffeeshop nearby. Kitten came over to pick us up for beers at Baden. He brought his colleague along. I was very annoyed at his colleague because Kitten and I were joking around about cleavages or something or another and his colleague, whose name is [Name deleted] , blatantly took photos of my cleavage with his handphone. I couldn't believe someone I met for the very first time, would do such an idiotic thing.
Upon my requests that he delete the goddamned pictures, he refused.
So, if you're wondering why I'm still single, look at the fine specimens of Singaporean guys I have come across. Ptooi!
I can actually sue his ass for voyeurism. Guys, can I sue him for harassment? Think I'll make a police report tomorrow because i'm damned pissed off.|W|P|110935220321578357|W|P|I Am Fucking Pissed Off|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/26/2005 01:52:00 AM|W|P| Tetanus|W|P|I suspect you're just a magnet for such guys. :P2/26/2005 01:55:00 AM|W|P| cour marly|W|P|I think we're way past the suspicion stage by now.2/26/2005 04:16:00 AM|W|P| The Unknown|W|P|Ewww, dickhead!2/26/2005 06:27:00 AM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|You should have poured a beer over the said phone with a "whoops" and smile...admittedly not very sweet :)
Otherwise in a very loud voice in the bar call out "Your penis is how small?" in a surprised voice.2/26/2005 08:20:00 AM|W|P| Stephen|W|P|you must have the proper goods.
now, can we get to business and can i borrow your head?2/26/2005 09:05:00 AM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|if I see your photo anywhere on the interneck, I'll tell you and you can sic the cops on him ok?2/26/2005 09:09:00 AM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|Hmm the question here is why didn't Kitten do anything about it? Or did he.2/26/2005 09:37:00 AM|W|P| Mr Miyagi|W|P|Can report police! Scare him a bit mah. But then by same token people can also do the same to you when you send them semi-lewd messages about your bosom.2/26/2005 10:43:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Kitten did nothing.
And Migs, I did not make semi, partially, slightly or fully lewd comments to him at all.2/26/2005 10:43:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|And migs, even if i did, he had no right to do that.2/26/2005 10:53:00 AM|W|P| |W|P|err... why didnt you just pour beer on his handphone? then say whoops...2/26/2005 11:26:00 AM|W|P| Ellipsis|W|P|KnightofPentacles, you really shouldn't have done what you just did; everyone deserves a fair trial. Maybe someone should take down that last comment for sanity's sake. I sympathise with FF but this blog is, afterall, very public.2/26/2005 12:52:00 PM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|I don't know, if i brought a friend along and he behaved like a complete asshole, I would feel at least some measure of responsibility for his actions.
But that's me.2/26/2005 02:14:00 PM|W|P| Vera|W|P|i think you can make a report.
he's so irritating! i want to wallop him up for you!
grrrrrr2/26/2005 04:14:00 PM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|Kitten :
Your argument is so ridiculously flawed that I am compelled to respond.
It boils down to one thing - respect. Your friend showed you a lack of respect by doing what he did to FF, and you showed a lack of respect to her by doing nothing, implying that you found his behavior acceptable. Ask yourself this, if it was your girlfriend or your sister he was taking pics of, would you still stick to your belief that you aren't responsible for his actions and do nothing to stop him?
And what if he didn't stop there and he started to harass her even more. (eventhough he already was) Are you gonna tell her "I'm sorry but i'm not responsible for his actions. Alright see ya next week!"
The bottomline here is you screwed up, the least you can do is admit it and apologize to her for it. People screw up all the time, its whether you make up for it thats what counts.3/02/2005 12:17:00 AM|W|P| Lam's Creation|W|P|Actually this falls under outrage of modesty, I think if you can find/engage a good lawyer, may be able to bring up a case against this $#@%^&* fella2/25/2005 01:09:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|People have been questioning my sweetness. I ooze sweetness ok?! Let me cite examples:
Love Part 1
Soon after this event, it was his birthday. I was a poor student then, yet I rushed to Orchard from Tuas in a cab after work (was having my internship), bought him a lava lamp, a pair of shoes he really wanted and a ring that he really liked. I rushed to his place in a cab (town to extreme north) before he arrived home and hid the presents all over the house. When he got home, I made him go on a treasure hunt and he declared it was the best birthday he'd ever had. I was bankrupt the rest of the month, but it was worth it.
Love Part 2
After this argument, I sent him a huge bouquet of a dozen red roses to his house and wrote in the card how sorry I am and how much I loved him and hoped he would forgive me.
(I don't think he appreaciated the roses, but I'm sure he did the gesture and the thought)
Love Part 3
His presents were a nice blue shirt, a Jap car magazine that I went looking for all over Melbourne and Sydney and a big box of goodies. And don't forget my $300 phone bill. Oh, and after I got back, he had lost a five figure amount in soccer, and I donated $2k to him. I even called up his mum to explain what happened and asked the mum not to be angry at him because he's very remorseful.
SWEET OR NOT?!
|W|P|110930892341403044|W|P|I Am Sweet|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/25/2005 02:45:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|Overdose of sweetness liao lor...
apparently he doesn't appreciate or even deserve it...
i wonder why you were with this kind of guys.
(if that guy reading this and he goes 'wtf?? i dun deserve it meh??'
STFU to you...you are those types of guys who go around making a bad name for the rest, breaking women's hearts, in turn hurting other innocent dudes.)
waahahahhahahaah
*shakes bug spray**die u scum!! die like those gay pervertic old uncles die!!!!!*oops...sorry. im a little eccentric. WAHAHAHAHAHA2/25/2005 03:30:00 PM|W|P| urbanmalebitch|W|P|Thank god you are not my girlfriend.....
Any sweeter and I would have died of diabetes.2/25/2005 03:39:00 PM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|sweet.. sweet..
its the evil kind of sweetness, right?
formaldyde also sweet leh.2/25/2005 04:22:00 PM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|Ok you are sweet...but if your soooo sweet how come you're single?2/25/2005 04:54:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Natsu>> Love is stupid.
Ah 9>> Are you alright?
Powerpuff>> Yeah I do... which will be my downfall one day.
Urban>> Aww.. you're so sweet too.
Mandrake>> This is called paikia sweetness (TM)
Plat>> I ask myself that everyday.2/25/2005 06:57:00 PM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|Lose 5 figure sum on soccer. Piang. This people are crazy. Dun have "insider tips", still dare to play so big. Refer him to Asianbookie.com lah.2/24/2005 11:23:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|I love you.
There, I said it, but I didn't mean it. You made me say it, what with that expectant look on your face after you said "I love you, FF. I really do." I couldn't bear to see a crestfallen look should I have kept quiet, so I said it. But I didn't mean it.
Shortly after we got together, I went on a 2 week trip. You called me up a few times on my handphone saying you missed me. I called you many times from my handphone telling you I missed you. You didn't realise I was on roaming and my phone bill came up to $300 that month. I didn't care, because I missed you. You didn't care because you're you. It didn't affect you, so you didn't care.
You emailed me saying you missed me. I emailed you back saying I missed you. I asked you what you wanted me to buy from there. You should have said "Nothing, just enjoy yourself and come home soon". You said "Please get me foglight covers for my car". I didn't know it fucking fogs in Singapore.
I arrived back in Singapore on a Wednesday night about 11pm. You said you couldn't make it to the airport because you had to sleep early cos you had work the next day. I said "Go to sleep baby, I don't want you to be tired the next day". You went to sleep. I took a cab home.
The next night you came over and I handed you all your presents.
You looked at me and said "I love you". I looked at you and said "Thank you". I saw the crestfallen look I had expected, but like you, I didn't care.
I knew I would never love you. And I never did.
|W|P|110925941772656492|W|P|Love Part 3|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/25/2005 12:13:00 AM|W|P| Darren|W|P|What was that? A story?2/25/2005 12:23:00 AM|W|P| The Unknown|W|P|...conversation with the subconcious2/25/2005 04:42:00 AM|W|P| Papigiulio|W|P|lol bubblemuch wot is it with women and large bankaccounts. Don't you girls have enuff shoes already? :P
nice story btw ff, I still lubs ya tho ;)2/25/2005 08:31:00 AM|W|P| PP|W|P|Would you love him if he asked for nothing and gave you everything?2/25/2005 09:32:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Darren>> Like the Unknown said...
Bubs>> Sometimes you have to tell white lies.
Papi: I lubs you too. Lol.
Ivan: Not really ah, I'm only a shark to guys I have no interest in.
PP: Of course!
Ruok: The problem with him was that he did love me, but he didn't realise love was more than just what he felt. Too self centred to know the real meaning of love.2/25/2005 09:32:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Kitten>> Quite obvious it is right?2/25/2005 09:55:00 AM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Foglights? Who the heck asks for foglights as a souvenirs?
Oh well, at least now you've moved on. :)2/25/2005 11:20:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|2/25/2005 11:21:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|drown the bug in pesticide...
death by inhaling death fumes is not enough...
drown drown drown!!!oops.
*shakes bug spray*2/25/2005 01:04:00 PM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|I can't help but wonder after reading the 3 "love" posts, how is it that you are "sweet"?2/24/2005 01:06:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|I was flipping through one of my old journals and found a poem I wrote for an ex after an argument because I was rude to one of his girlfriends.
16th June 1999
I saw your ugly face
Rage and anger filled me
I wanted to slap you
So you could see clearly
The reality of what you just did
Hate and loathing bubbled inside me
You were once my love
Now you're nothing
A dried leaf
Floating in the wind
Drifting nowhere
Turning to dust
You are no one
Die you chee bye fuck face
I kid you not.
|W|P|110917874699100237|W|P|Love Part 2|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/24/2005 01:23:00 AM|W|P| Mr Miyagi|W|P|There is a poem that goes:
You don't send me flowers. Anymore. Fuckface.
Can't remember the poet, but it's from this anthology.2/24/2005 02:57:00 AM|W|P| Sheena|W|P|what a classic liner "Die you chee bye fuck face"!
ff, really just love all your lines man! more please! ;)2/24/2005 04:38:00 AM|W|P| Darren|W|P|The last line is the best of it all!2/24/2005 09:32:00 AM|W|P| MDFK|W|P|How come all your man so cute one huh ?
One wait at your void deck until morning , one write cool poem .
You must be hot or you put magic spell on them ha ha2/24/2005 09:38:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Shion>> I wrote it not him.2/24/2005 10:55:00 AM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Haha. Like everyone said, the last line is what makes the poem. You should make it the title.2/24/2005 03:01:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|i wish i had an exgirlfriend whom another gal would call her a cbf-face. Ahahahaha...pity gals don't fight over me. Wheee... ;D2/23/2005 09:06:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|Just when I thought I was past the crush stage (think Sly), I'm so in love again.
Say hello to Constantine Maroulis.
He quit his band to pursue his dream of stardom. Yummy. I know he's not exactly good looking but you should all know why I'm attracted to him. Not only can he sing, but he exudes this bad boy/rocker image I so love. Ironically, he sang
"Kiss From A Rose" by Seal, which Sly sang too. Dare I say it was heaps better than Sly's rendition? Hmmm. I dare. It was heaps better than Sly's rendition.
I can't stop doodling Mrs. Finicky Maroulis on my writing pad.
Love is a many splendoured thing.
|W|P|110916481635066683|W|P|I Am In Love Again|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/23/2005 10:29:00 PM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|I worry about you buckets.2/23/2005 11:53:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|i look fatter than tat. and damn...i dun have tat kind of jackets and long hair. :P2/24/2005 12:09:00 AM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|Oh god I hate that guy.
Rock has always been, at least to me, about rebellion and not conforming to the norm.
The problem here is even if he wins, he will be a puppet and probably be moulded to be the next Bon Jovi and/or a teen hearthrob crooning rock love ballads.
And to a rock fan there is no bigger sellout.2/24/2005 12:58:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Cowboy>> Then faster intro me to your hot single friends.
Bubs>> Competition is great in the US. He's just finding a shortcut to get famous.
Ah 9>> How heavy are you? Still within my requirements or not?
Indian>> I love Bon Jovi. There's nothing wrong if he's moulded to be the next Bon Jovi. Bon Jovi's hot as hell.
Puff>> You should hear his voice man. He can sing.2/24/2005 10:54:00 AM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|American Idol is getting kinda boring now.2/24/2005 12:49:00 PM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|Guy looks like he could seriously do with a shower, and with soap this time.2/24/2005 01:09:00 PM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|I didn't think you were into the greasy Mediterranean types.2/24/2005 01:48:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|The cleft on his chin is so bootiful it makes me tear.3/04/2005 11:20:00 PM|W|P| coern|W|P|wah lau, i think the other rocker is better lah.
and every rock dude has a right to pop stardom and loads of dosh. not "selling-out", in my opinion, might just be slightly mastubatory.2/23/2005 03:05:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|Oh my goodness.
Someone actually posted my paikia entry in a forum which got 45 replies! Check it out here. I wonder which one of you is Miracle. Reveal yourself I say!
Hatasan was looking for a shark aka an intimidating female. And someone actually recommended moi! Oh my god, I'm flattered. Check it out here.
I AM A SHARK! Rooaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrr! Oh, wait a minute, sharks don't roar.
I bite. Hard.
|W|P|110914303743459430|W|P|Here Comes The Walrus Shark|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/23/2005 03:50:00 PM|W|P| Tetanus|W|P|Are you? Do you? Hmmm...2/23/2005 04:01:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|SHhhhhhh. I like playing pretend sometimes.2/23/2005 04:01:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|u did a Google search on ur nick issit?? Own up! wahahaha
dun bite me! hard...
hee2/23/2005 05:04:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|What's this all about lah?2/22/2005 11:44:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|I read Mr. Migs blog about lurve (or not) earlier. On MSN, he said something or another and I told him I'm not the sentimental type and I throw away most of my love letters. Why, he asked? Because it's over... what's the point in remembering?
But our memories are very powerful tools, which cannot be controlled.
There are moments I look back at and frown because they're not worth remembering. Yet, I remember. There are moments I look back at and smile, because they're oh so worth remembering. You know how some people have done extraordinary things for you and you know no one else in the world would do the same thing for ya?
I think it'd be nice for me to record some of my love moments here.
*clears throat*
Many years ago, I was an unreasonable biatch. I really don't understand how this happened, but when I got angry, my heart would turn into stone.
We got into a bad argument once and I was mad as hell. At about 8pm, I was sitting in my room when I got an sms saying "I'm downstairs. Please let me know when you've cooled down. I'm sorry". I looked out of my window and saw him sitting at the void deck. He waved at me, I gave him the finger and shut the window.
2 hours later, I looked down and he was still sitting there. My gf, E, commented how mean I was. I brushed it aside saying he deserved it. Soon after, I went to sleep. Throughout the night, I kept waking up every few hours to check if he was down there. I took comfort in seeing him at my void deck. He looked tired. I went back to sleep.
The next morning, I awoke and looked down. He wasn't there. Oh well. I got dressed and headed out the door to uni. There he was sitting outside my door, unshaven and visibly tired. Yet, he put on a cheerful front and handed me my favourite packet of milo from the coffeeshop opposite.
"Here you go, sweetie. Let me send you to class. Please don't be angry anymore".
I wasn't angry anymore, and that was the bestest Milo I'd ever tasted.
|W|P|110908772906814277|W|P|Love Part 1|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/23/2005 01:12:00 AM|W|P| Unknown|W|P|nice to know there are also others like me, do this kind of thing. I don't feel alone anymore.
:)2/23/2005 04:54:00 AM|W|P| Papigiulio|W|P|Wouldve done the similar thing, altho wouldve fallen asleep sooner tho :P2/23/2005 05:36:00 AM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|Damn!
I would've lasted the first hour, two at most then it would've been,
"Right Biatch, up yours too!"
And home I would have gone, single, pissed off, to drink the Milo before I went to bed.2/23/2005 07:37:00 AM|W|P| Vera|W|P|Wow.. he's so patient..
when i'm angry, i'm very mean too..2/23/2005 07:55:00 AM|W|P| Unknown|W|P|you were a bad, bad girl... but thank god ure reformed now.. heh..2/23/2005 09:06:00 AM|W|P| MDFK|W|P|Respect to the man.2/23/2005 09:48:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|Quote: "He waved at me, I gave him the finger and shut the window."
i agree with bubbles, that line is a classic. im swooning...hahahaha
Hey tat guy is really sweet...i wonder what he did to make you so mad.
Sometimes im as mean as you...the worst ex i got...after breaking up, for the 2nd time in a year, i told her off, "why don't you go fcuk spider"...Pissing bitch...messed up my life.....never heard from her again. MUAHAHAHHAA *damn...i feel good*2/23/2005 10:14:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|He was sweet. But he was a paikia. When it was good, it was really really good but when he was bad, he was very very bad. The very very bad aspect of our relationship still gives me nightmares.
And what did we argue about that time? I don't really remember, I was very petty then. Small issues would set me off.2/23/2005 12:27:00 PM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|Its so sweet to hear that guy do something like that. I did something similar once. But because of the unpleasant memories attached that particular incident, I do not think I'm even capable of doing that anymore. Each time I think of evening doing it, sends me the blues. I wish I am capable of performing such a lomantic act once again.2/23/2005 01:09:00 PM|W|P| aMuse|W|P|Guess it's stuff like this that makes us hang on in spite of the really bad stuff.2/23/2005 01:11:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Amuse>> Exactly why we stick to paikias.
The kuaikias are nice people, but they don't go that extra mile for us.2/23/2005 01:28:00 PM|W|P| PensiveTabby|W|P|Regarding what you said about whats the point of remembering.. I wish to share something I read from Ondine's blog.
She remembers all the things that happened to her, no matter whether they are good or bad, because all these things happened to make her who she is now.
Just my 2 cents..2/23/2005 02:38:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|FF Quote: "The kuaikias are nice people, but they don't go that extra mile for us. "
you be surprised that some nice guys do go all the way for someone they really love. (they really really love...that is...haha)2/23/2005 03:14:00 PM|W|P| Michelle|W|P|scarry lar the paikias. they are very extreme lar. i wouldnt want them as my husband.2/22/2005 09:33:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|When I first started using the internet, my parents warned me countless times not to meet anyone I met online in person. They were convinced I'd be raped, molested or brainwashed into becoming a prostitute. Something along those lines ya know? Parents. Sheesh.
But anyhow, I didn't listen to my parents and a few months back, I met Woof for the first time at NYDC at the Heeren. I was with PP and I thought he was very brave, coming to meet two complete strangers. Also, my fears about meeting strangers were unfounded as he's a really nice guy and very very harmless.
Last weekend, I met Tetanus for the first time too. The meeting place was supposed to be at Lido at 9:15pm, but because of the goddamned Chingay preview, I was late because I had to make a big detour from the MRT (btw, cabs refused to bring me into Orchard Road). I hate taking trains, I hate crowds and I hate being late, so I was all hot and flustered. Fortunately, we weren't late for the movie at all. We then went prostitute watching at Orchard Towers. Tet's a very nice guy and absolutely harmless too. The movie spared us from all possible awkward conversations a first meeting could possibly hold.
I've also met Mr. Migs a couple of times because he's PP's friend. My memory of Mr. Migs goes back as far as 1998 when he picked PP and I up at god knows where and sent me to god knows where. He doesn't remember this though, and I barely remember that meeting except he was very quiet (I was very quiet too because I had a raging fever) and he was bald (I like bald men, very sexy ie, shaved bald not naturally bald).
So anyhow, which blogger have you met up with before and what was the first meeting like?
Edit:
And by the way, I just want to let you know that when my status on MSN says "Busy", I really am busy. Busy playing solitaire showdown on MSN that is. Please don't msg me because my comp might hang for awhile and I might lose the game and I hate losing. Thank you for your attention.|W|P|110903732218129363|W|P|I Meet Up With Strangers|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/22/2005 10:14:00 AM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|Never met any blogger in person before cept for friends who are already blogging. Will you help me break my virginity(in meeting bloggers)? Jokes aside, isn't there any blogger meetup session around? I kind of know that there is an annual meetup event in KL, not sure about Singapore though.2/22/2005 10:31:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Hey FF, you think your parents would approve of your meeting up with me if I ever come to S'pore even if I promise I wont chop you up & make feline burgers out of U?2/22/2005 10:44:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|I have not met anyone else from the blogging world, except those who were my friends before hand. My friends don't really blog nowadays anyway...i have to improvise and widen my reading scope to strangers' blogs. hehe
I wouldn't rule out meeting bloggers....but for now...don't have the urge...terribly shy. Afterall i started blogging only last year, mostly on frustrations, only recently about events in my life. Strangely i find it good therapy for me. Im less frustrated and jittery.
=D
*strangely my comments tend to go off-topic sometimes...hahaha. sorry2/22/2005 10:50:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Triple>> Why don't you organise one?
MsMeow>> I think women are ok. :) When will you come down here?
Ah 9>> I'm also really shy, but it'd be fun to meet up with one day.2/22/2005 11:38:00 AM|W|P| zhi yang|W|P|I met up with adrianna once. she was totally radical. =D2/22/2005 11:40:00 AM|W|P| zhi yang|W|P|And Mr brown, miyagi and company do arrange meet ups. But it's mostly for high profilers (xiaxue, adri, brown, miyagi).
Just so you all know. =D2/22/2005 12:12:00 PM|W|P| Mr Miyagi|W|P|1. I was so not bald.
2. I dropped PP off at your flat in Tampines.
3. It was 1999.
4. There will be a meet-up for all and sundry. Stay tuned.
5. Mr Brown and Mr Miyagi did not organise those 'high-profile' meet-ups.2/22/2005 02:09:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Migs>> You were bald, or very close to it. I was sitting at the back and was staring at your head in my fevered state.2/22/2005 08:49:00 PM|W|P| zhi yang|W|P|Someone else organises them?2/22/2005 09:28:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|I am proven to be absolutely harmless. You can ask Miss Scarlett Ting. Hehe.2/22/2005 10:33:00 PM|W|P| Vera|W|P|i've never met up with any bloggers before.. but i would love to meet some of you some day :)2/23/2005 06:02:00 AM|W|P| Stephen|W|P|i love your edit comment. its amazing ow you come up with so many thing to write about.2/23/2005 07:57:00 AM|W|P| Unknown|W|P|It was love at first sight *awwww...*2/23/2005 03:06:00 PM|W|P| Tetanus|W|P|Hmmm. "Prostitute watching" doesn't really put me in a very good light... LOL!2/21/2005 02:59:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|A week or two ago, I got so fed up of Mr. Fansy, I humiliated him. He called me many times and I'd just pick up the phone and hang up. He never stopped calling. I then got my colleague to answer the phone and she told him I was busy. I told her to add that I'd be busy the next two years so he can call me after that. He said ok and hung up. Most guys would be embarassed right? Not our dear Mr. Fansy.
The next day, he called me up again. This time I answered and asked him to please stop calling because he's bloody irritating. To my horror, he actually sounded dumbfounded and asked me, "Are you sure I'm irritating? I don't think I am". I screeched, "You're fucking irritating, stop calling me!!!!!!!!!!". He said ok and hung up. I have not heard from him since.
But now, I present to you - Mr. Fansy No. 2! Our wonderful conversations are below. All this in a span of two days. Sigh.
Saturday morning (through SMS)
Bulb: Hey FF, my car got scratched, I'm so unlucky, what should I do?
FF: Wear red underwear.
Bulb: Sure that will work? You free later?
FF: No. No.
Saturday night (through SMS)
Bulb: Hey FF, you free now?
FF: No.
Saturday night (through phone)
Bulb: What are you doing?
FF: I'm out.
Bulb: Oh then nvm.
FF: Bye.
Saturday night (through MSN)
Bulb: Hey, I bet on soccer always lose.
FF: Don't bet then.
Bulb: You watching soccer?
FF: Nope.
Bulb: Can I come over and watch?
FF: Nope.
Late Saturday night (through SMS)
Bulb: Are you sleeping?
FF: Yes.
Bulb: Tomorrow want to go to JB?
FF: No.
Bulb: Oh, I was just joking.
Yesterday evening (through SMS)
Bulb: Want to eat?
FF: No.
Yesterday night (through MSN despite my busy status)
Bulb: What are you doing?
FF: Playing game.
Bulb: :) I won't disturb you then.
FF: Bye.
Today (through SMS)
Bulb: People say this movie is very good. It's called Constantine. Shall we go watch together?
FF: Watched. Not good.
You guys always say that we girls are dumb for falling for the paikias. But if you notice, I can probably be considered a female paikia. The worse I treat a guy, the more he wants me.
So it's not only the girls who like paikia hor! You guys are guilty of it too!
|W|P|110897007133158386|W|P|Guys Like Paikia Too|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/21/2005 03:38:00 PM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|To use the paikia technique to sian char bor, isn't simple u noe? Before that you must promise her love and brainwash her so much that whatever you do to her afterwards doesn't matter. You can hit her, but must back up with good reason(eg. I love her so much that i cannot stand you talking to dat CB). You can verbally abuse her, but once in a while must be able to sweet-talk her til she kena diabetes. Each time you are fark-up to her or to others, the more she appreciates the "nice" you.
Nice guy lose out because they treat all ppl the same all the time hence when they treat the girl the same, she doesn't feel special.
In your case, aiyo...that guy damn dense lah. CMI.2/21/2005 04:01:00 PM|W|P| Tetanus|W|P|LOL... Sorry; had to laugh. What is it with you and guys who can't even hold a decent conversation, even if it's thru SMS?2/21/2005 04:10:00 PM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|I give that guy an A for effort.2/21/2005 04:30:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|i did use the bug spray on him. :P2/21/2005 04:53:00 PM|W|P| aberwyn|W|P|maybe he gets the kick out of being slapped around?2/21/2005 08:29:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|Paikia girls exude attitude. Some guys like attitude. Hehe.2/21/2005 10:54:00 PM|W|P| Papigiulio|W|P|hehehe, I agree with caleb there.2/22/2005 02:57:00 AM|W|P| zhi yang|W|P|you should at least give the guy a chance. willing to demean himself just to have a date with you or something.2/22/2005 03:05:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|I'd give the guys an F for being a guy.2/21/2005 10:07:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|I know why my luck has not been that good lately. On the fifth day of CNY, I threw my rascal's ball for her to fetch, it hit the mirror and the mirror crashed on the groud with a loud "Piaaaaaaaannnnngggggggg!!". The day after that, my light covering fell to the ground and broke into a million pieces.
Remind me to wear my red underwear tomorrow for luck.
When I was in the police station yesterday, there was an old lady ahead of me talking to the policeman. I was so pissed off to hear she'd been a victim of snatch theft. A young Malay boy had snatched her handbag when she came out of the lift. Has he no shame?!!
The policeman asked her to describe what happened, but the poor lady barely remembered anything. She didn't remember what he was wearing, which hand he used to snatch the bag, facial features or size. That's why assholes rob old ladies. I wish he'd rob me so I could punch him hard hard (learnt alot from my kickboxing class you know) or uppercut his chin and kick his balls damn hard so much so they get lodged in his throat.
|W|P|110895228166635486|W|P|Blimey|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/21/2005 10:22:00 AM|W|P| JellyGirl|W|P|That's precisely why they wouldn't rob you, cos they know you'd kick their asses! What were you doing at the police station anyway?2/21/2005 10:33:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Cos I lost my wallet. See previous post.
In Malaysia, snatch thefts occur to anyone, young or old ladies, it don't matter.2/21/2005 11:12:00 AM|W|P| PP|W|P|They say "suay suay peen an" (piece = peace) so it's hokay to break things during CNY, just don't sweep it outside your house. Get the new pink Dior wallet! So cute :)2/21/2005 12:08:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Where did it happen? In Msia?2/21/2005 01:25:00 PM|W|P| zhi yang|W|P|I understand your feeling. sorta.
My aunt went Malaysia some time ago with her friends and they were driving when suddenly like the tire punctured. They got down and didn't know what to do (all middle aged aunties) then this guy approached them and offered to help them. They got down from the car and the guy was fixing the tire.
Then suddenly a motorbike dashed past and took the handbag left in the car by one of my auntie's friend. Then the guy helping them also drove off.
Then they call for professional help. Then towed their truck and discovered a tiny tube pierced into their tire.
No prizes for guessing who blew that into their tire.2/21/2005 01:30:00 PM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Oh FF teenage boys have no shame at all. Especially the thieving kind.Sorry about wallet.I've lost a couple.Now I get the kind with a handle & I attach one of those thick hooks (for keys) to both ends of a wrist cord (for keys)& hook wallet to the inside hook in my handbag. (Nerd alert!)When I'm on holiday I have pockets sewn into my underpants & inside of lower leg of my capri's. LOL Thief wont go through the bother of defrocking or depantsing. LOL2/20/2005 11:44:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|Starlight star bright
First star I see tonight
I wish I may, I wish I might
Have this wish I wish tonight
Many a time, I stand at my window and see that very reliable star I see almost every night in the sky twinkling. Sometimes, when I'm done, I'd wish on the star that I was happy, that I was rich, or that I'd be in love. I'm sure some of you do it too.
Just now, I was standing by the window in the kitchen getting some fresh air when I saw that same star again. In my head, I recited the rhyme above, but when it came to making a wish, I had nothing to wish for!
Despite my lost wallet, the stunts my lousy ex housemate pulls on me, lousy customer service, etc., I just realised there's nothing I can't take in my stride. It'll take something really big to unnerve me and I'm glad that I'm still very happy with my life, and there's seriously nothing more that I need to make me more content.
I mean, sure it's a great big hassle having to block my cards and pay the fine for my lost IC, but it's a good lesson learnt to be more careful in the future.
I'm pleasantly surprised at myself because I was very matter of fact about my lost wallet. It's amazing how you learn new things about yourself everyday and today, I learnt that I'm hardy as hell. Many people messaged me to ask me if I'm ok and I thank you for your concern but yes, I'm very ok lah.
Edit:
Prontip wrote a funny post about her housemate.
|W|P|110891518736086034|W|P|I Love Myself|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/21/2005 12:35:00 AM|W|P| The Unknown|W|P|:) glad to hear. Time for a new wallet yea.2/21/2005 01:00:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|I suppose. I just bought that wallet half a year ago and loved it. Oh well.
I console myself by telling myself:
1) Luckily you just used up your coffee bean stamps to get a free drink
2) Handed over your driving license for mum to renew
3) Time to shop for a new wallet!
4) Nothing is irreplaceable from that wallet
5) Luckily you didn't have cash in the wallet
6) Luckily you haven't collected your gym card yet
7) Luckily you didn't keep love letters in the wallet2/21/2005 02:32:00 AM|W|P| Papigiulio|W|P|alot of lucky things, so your wallet was empty when you lost it or what??2/21/2005 10:20:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|Sorry to hear bout ur wallet. Judging by your comments lately...maybe it's time...
for you to go out there and do something exciting. Hehe2/20/2005 02:11:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|because I lost my wallet.
Yesterday, I took a train from AMK to BV and took a cab from BV to my home. I was so tired (from 2 aerobics classes, heavy dinner, rummaging through a This Fashion mega sale and the travelling), that I left my wallet in the cab.
I was so tired I don't even remember what colour the cab was.
The Bug called me today and I told him I lost my wallet. He said "Oh, hey, I lost a lot of money playing blackjack yesterday. Why am I so sibei suay (darned unlucky)?"
My colleague called me today and I told her I lost my wallet. She said "Oh no, hey, the pipe under my sink is spoilt too."
Nobody loves me. Sob.
So, anyhow, I am poor now. I have no access to the meagre amount of cash I have in the bank, my credit cards have been blocked by myself and I have about 10 bucks in my piggy bank. Please donate generously to help this poor soul.
I had a great day planned today - 2 hours at the gym and a facial. I am now sitting at home wallowing in frustration at my carelessness. What a lousy way to end the week.
Sniff.
|W|P|110888093105095925|W|P|My Day Sucked...|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/20/2005 03:34:00 PM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|you need a loan from me?
IM me your bank account number.2/20/2005 04:15:00 PM|W|P| Maximus|W|P|To date, I've lost my wallet 7 times already. I'm absent minded. That is why I use a money clip. this way, you dont lose your cards. deminishes the probability of you losing your entire wallet when you dont take them out all the time.. anyway.. from past experience, usually you'd have your cards and stuff mailed back to you. or perhaps i was lucky.. its been returned to me the last 3 times.2/20/2005 04:49:00 PM|W|P| Guojun|W|P|Sorry to hear that babe. I know how you feel. I always lost my wallets also, and my watches, and my handphones... Thats why I stopped carrying wallets for a period of time, until a beautiful girl gave me a new wallet for Christmas. =)2/20/2005 05:24:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Yeah. give your account number to Caleb. And remember to pay him back the money.2/20/2005 06:08:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Sorry to hear about that. Well, at least help has come in the form of Cowboy Caleb. Haha.2/20/2005 06:25:00 PM|W|P| Guojun|W|P|Eh... FF t no ATM card, how is she going to access the money Cowboy passed to her?2/20/2005 09:04:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Thanks guys, but I already borrowed money from my sister.
I have made a police report, blocked all my cards and made a report with comfort cab. I'm now pretty sure I got into a blue cab.
Thank God I didn't have money in my wallet.2/20/2005 10:07:00 PM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|so where do you put your money then?2/20/2005 10:14:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|I hope you retrieve your wallet soon.2/21/2005 02:29:00 AM|W|P| Papigiulio|W|P|heuh works now... :|
anyways sry to hear about your wallet, that really sucks, you gotta order every bankcard and other id's again.2/20/2005 12:21:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|I received a $50 Mango voucher from UOB, which was sent to my old address despite me having updated my address when I moved. Naturally (rolls eyes), the voucher has expired. I called up UOB today and explained the situation to a polite young man. He listened sympathetically, making the occasional appropriate ooh and ahh responses, and then asked for my credit card number, name, IC no., old address and new address. This took me a hefty 3~5 minutes. This, while walking in the hot sun in my gym sweater. Then, the polite young man told me that I had to call card services because he's not from card services.
*Furious silence*
What the heow?
Me: Why didn't you tell me from the start that you're not in charge of card services?
Him: Oh, I just needed to know what happened and note down all your details. I'll pass you to card services now.
Me: So you're telling me I have to explain all this again to someone else? (I was getting more agitated with each syllable)
Him: Yes.
Me: Fine.
I was on hold for twenty minutes listening to the recorded voice tell me how important my call is and all the customer service officers are busy at the moment. My arm and ear got sore after that and I hung up.
I hate being ignored.
Don't get me started on Starhub.
|W|P|110883100132342477|W|P|Service Customers Why Don't Ya|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/20/2005 12:55:00 AM|W|P| Unknown|W|P|they are useless... trick tho is to call early in the morning.. like 8am once u reach the office..
Starhub sux! I call their helpline at 0830, only to hear them say the helpdesk is closed for the day, and is open from 0800 to 2100...2/20/2005 01:42:00 AM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|I can sense a complaint letter in the works !!!
Somewhere in Singapore (or elsewhere), Mr Wee Cho Yaw's left eyelid is twitching.2/20/2005 09:36:00 AM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|Wow, I must hand it to you that you actually held on for a 20 minutes wait! Next time, when 3G starts, these customer service officers will be able to see me holding a knife, waiting to go after them should they not satisfy my requests.2/20/2005 09:37:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|You're lucky that there's @ least the possiblity of the situation being resolved.Here in USA, we chalk it up 2 a "Shit Happens" situation,white it off,call it a day,shrug the shoulders & say, "Oh well..."2/20/2005 09:37:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Jayaxe-You kill me. LOL LOL2/19/2005 09:16:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|I watched Constantine yesterday and I didn't like it. I feel left out because everybody who watched it said it was great/good/wonderful/marvellous/fucking fantastic. I know I shouldn't conform to what everyone says, but dammit, did I not see something everyone saw? Maybe it was because the movie was mostly about religion, Lucifer, Gabriel and God, which I have no interest in? Whatever it was, the movie was draggy and I'm not a big fan of Keanu.
I am fucking angry as hell. Remember the ex housemate of mine? Truth be told, he's supposed to be my good friend because we've known each other since our first year of uni. But, with friends like him, I honestly don't need enemies.
Last month, before we moved out completely of our old house, he owed all of us about $400 worth of unpaid bills. He refused to pay on grounds that he didn't have enough and it took a good scolding from me in front of my housemates before he reluctantly coughed up the money. Then he begged me to lend him my old hp for awhile and out of the goodness of my heart, I very reluctantly lent him my old hp (Nokia 8250).
Now, he refuses to answer my phone calls or return my calls. He replied one of my smses yesterday about going for dinner with one of our mutual friends who's leaving Singapore for good, but nothing about the phone. No, he probably won't go for the dinner.
I don't understand how someone who's my age can act so irresponsibly? Which should I do:
1) Call his father (I have the number) and ask him to get my fucking phone back
2) Go to the house with a baseball bat and a big sized guy friend of mine to get my fucking phone back
3) Call the police and have him arrested to get my fucking phone back
4) Murder him and throw him in Clarke Quay after I get my fucking phone back
5) Cut off his privates and feed it to Ah Meng at the zoo after I get my fucking phone back??!!!
|W|P|110877681831157151|W|P|I Hate Guys|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/19/2005 10:24:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|God what a wanker!He just is such a child.Yes these people exist in droves.They never change & don't ever lend him anything again.If he asks,tell him you lent it/sold it to someone already.They're people like this in every nation on Earth!Get used to them.They're flighty airheads who can't get their act together.They're not dumb people,just not "With the programme".It happens.2/19/2005 02:58:00 PM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|don't insult 18 years old or Ah Meng. I think you should just avoid these kind of people generally and save that kindess for some other who are more deserving. He asked for it anyway.2/19/2005 03:30:00 PM|W|P| TriplePeriod|W|P|KNN. CCB. I hate ppl who owe money and stuffs and then try to run away. I don't mind if they admit their difficulty and I might even help them. I have almost 1k of black debts due to these pests. Can't wait to get my fist into one of those arsehole's face. Sorry, I happen to be in a foul mood. Usually, I really am a very nice person..usually...2/19/2005 03:42:00 PM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|I have a friend like that. Only difference is he's 31 and still behaving like an irresponsible ass.
I say cut off all contact with him.2/19/2005 06:04:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|set him on fire.2/19/2005 06:54:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Just avoid ppl like that. Stop talking to those who ask for money or hp.2/19/2005 07:38:00 PM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|2/19/2005 07:40:00 PM|W|P| Mr. G|W|P|1. SMS him, tell him if he doesnt return the phone by the end of the week you are going to call his house and ask his dad for it.
2. If he doesn't reply, call his dad and ask for your 'friend'. If hes not around or doesn't wanna answer, tell his dad that you been trying to contact him but he isn't answering your calls. Tell his dad that he borrowed your phone and is refusing to give him back, and ask him if he could kindly ask his son to let you know by tommorow when he can return it.
3. If no answer the next day, call house again and repeat step 2. Repeat this daily until they feel paiseh enough to give it back.
This is what I did when my cousin refused to give me back the money he owed from me for more than a year and ignored my calls and smses.
I got the money back from his parents. When it comes to this kinda things you have to be thick-skinned, cos those people don't know shame. So you have to go down to their level.
Good luck.2/20/2005 12:05:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|I am going with Stallion's advice.
Will update you on what happens.
Thanks for the advice y'all!2/18/2005 08:52:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|After reading Ms. Powerpuff's post and one of the forwarded emails Tetanus sent to me (please see the More more more! section), I have decided....
I do not want to get married anytime soon for the following reasons:
1) My longest relationship was 2 years and a bit. What makes me think I can commit the rest of my life to one person?
2) I have not found anyone who's even remotely close to someone I want to spend the rest of my life with
3) I don't want kids, so that's one reason less for me to get married (Having a dog is more than enough for me - no answering back, no borrowing your car or draining your wallet)
4) I have not enjoyed my life enough yet
5) I haven't saved enough money to pay for the bloody wedding ceremony
6) I can't even find myself a boyfriend, much less a husband
Marriage is portrayed as being exciting and fun in movies. It's a frigging conspiracy I tell you! They just want us to procreate for the continuation of the human population! I lived with an ex for two whole years. After a few months, the passion died down, the arguments and the misery started, so much so we couldn't stand being around each other and broke up soon after.
But I have to remember how my uncle was adamant about not getting married as well, even more so than me. Then, he met this lovely lady and married her within four months of knowing her. And you know what they say about who says she doesn't want to get married will be the first to get married, so I better shut my trap!
The choice of a marriage partner should not be based on "I get a warm,
wonderful feeling whenever we're together and I want to have that warm
wonderful feeling forever, so let's go get married".
Feelings,as we have discussed, have no logic on their own. They need
to be acknowledged, of course, but they need considerable assistance
from your brain. Marriage means choosing the person you will spend the
rest of you life with.This, as you may have guessed, is a very long
time to spend with one person.
This person will live with you, eat meals with you, sleep with you,
and go on vacation with you. More important yet, this person will
share your children.
You need to choose wisely. The decision should not be made based on
feelings alone. You need to ask yourself some tough questions.! The
decisions have to be made on solid considerations.
Will this person be a good partner? Is she mature enough to put her
own selfish desires aside to look out for what is best for the family?
Is he prepared to be a good provider? What is his track record? Is he
responsible enough to get a good job and keep it? Will this person be
a good parent? Can you stand the thought of your children turning out
exactly like this person? They will, you know. Children spend a lot of
time with their parents and consequently pick up many or most of their
parents' character traits. You had better like your spouse's traits a
lot because you will be seeing them again in your children. If
something were to happen to you, would you completely trust this
person, alone, with the task of raising and forming your children?
This is not a pleasant thought, but it is an important consideration.
Not everyone dies at a ripe old age with great grandchildren gathered
around the bed. Sometimes a parent dies and leaves young children in
the care of the other parent.
If you feel that you would need to be around to correct or lessen this
person's influence on your children, then you are considering the
wrong person.
Does this person share your faith in God? God does not give us
children so that we can mold them into the coolest, most popular
people in school.
Our job is to get them to heaven. To do that, we need to raise them
believing in God and in His Church. It is tough to do that if only one
parent believes.
Saying "this is right and this is wrong, and I want you to ignore
Mommy until you are thirty-five" does not work.
Small children ask about eight skillion questions in a single day.
The answers to those questions go a long way toward forming the kind
of adults they will become. Who will be answering those questions for
your children?
Does t! his person you are marrying have sexual self-control?
Single people sometimes have this idea that marriage is just some kind
of lifelong sex festival and that as long as they have each other,
they will never be tempted by other people.
Wrong!
There are many times in every marriage when one partner or the other
is sexually unavailable? There are also times when spouses, just get
on each others nerves.
At times like this, other people can seem very appealing. That can be
dangerous, because there are plenty of very attractive people out
there who are willing to make them available to married men and women.
Do you want someone who has never said "no" to sex? If he is not good
at saying "no" at eighteen, it won't be different at forty. Do you
want to worry about whether or not your spouse is being faithful?
What kind of marriage can you have with someone you couldn't trust on
a business trip?
These are very important questions, and if you are not comfortable
with all of the answers, you should definitely not marry this person.
None if this is to say that feelings play no role at all in a marriage
decision. You don't have to, "Well, I suppose that you would make a
good spouse and parent, so even though I don't particularly like you I
guess I'll marry you'. You need to be happy and excited about the
prospect of spending your life with someone. Your brain however must
acknowledge that this person as a good catch.
Don't listen to your heart alone or your head alone. Wait until your
heart and head agree.
"Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship.
It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much
love you build till the end."
|W|P|110868860684193371|W|P|Marriage Is Not For Me|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/18/2005 09:54:00 AM|W|P| Darren|W|P|If you don't give too much damn about marriage, it'll be an enjoyable process. Why give so many "I havent" and "I can't" and "I don't want"... Why bother so much?2/18/2005 09:57:00 AM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Marriage is not for you because you don't want it; not because it's simply not for you.2/18/2005 10:32:00 AM|W|P| cour marly|W|P|FF, it costs less than $30 to register a marriage. No need for fancy wedding ceremonies at all.2/18/2005 10:37:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Well @ least you've got the key 2 the right way of relationships. People always jump in willy nilly with no thought or planning.They often have babies first without first even saving money or having a home.Then the fuck ups lean on their parents,siblings,relatives & friends 2 bail them out of their debts.People marry or have live in r/ships, have kids, divorce,split up end up in the poor house & live like miserable cranky bastards & make the rest of us miserable with their foul moods cause they couldn't practice birth control. Or they couldn't keep their partner from racking up charges on their credit cards, which they'll be paying off until 2015. People just sometimes don't know how to do "IT" right. You FF seemed to at least HAVE A CLUE as to how to do "IT" right. You're ahead of the game. Maybe (like me) you really aren't sure what you want, but at least YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DON'T WANT2/18/2005 11:09:00 AM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|That email couldn't any more true.
At least you know what being in a marriage involves and the commitment that comes with it.
I think many people don't do that or put enough though into getting married to someone.
Well you know what they always say, love finds you when you least expect it. :)2/18/2005 11:22:00 AM|W|P| FF|W|P|Darren>> Why bother so much? You'll see what I mean if you get married without having money in the bank, or having to stinge on your wedding because you both haven't saved enough money. Marriage is a lifetime commitment, so of course I bother to think all this through before I can even think of committing myself. You should too.
Cour>> Yeah, but you know how much those wedding banquets cost! And I can't possibly not have one (even tho i'd much rather not) because must give face to my hubby's parents bla bla bla.. you know how old folks are.
Meow>> Thank you luv.
Powerpuff>> I never said I shouldn't get married because I don't want kids. I know that's not the sole reason people get married. I said it's one less reason not to get married.
Zenith>> Agree completely. We should not only consult our hearts, but our minds as well.2/18/2005 11:43:00 AM|W|P| None|W|P|almost couldn't post a comment...i keep waiting and waiting...funny...it's ok on other sites.
Your previous entry was very funny...pity the comment page won't load up. haha
Beware of people with less than decent ingrish next time. Hahaha. =D2/18/2005 12:01:00 PM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|you're not ready emotionally or mentaly - period.2/18/2005 12:44:00 PM|W|P| cour marly|W|P|Luv, you've missed my point, and the whole point of marriage. Which means the Cowboy is spot on.2/18/2005 09:16:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|You're still considered young for marriage. Save some money first in the meantime. But you don't want kids?! You sure? I think you'll change your mind when you get married though. Hehe.2/19/2005 10:25:00 AM|W|P| Michelle|W|P|a grand wedding ceremony does not cost much. the angpows will get it covered. visit my blog soon. i'll post about my wedding within 6 mths after courtship!2/19/2005 06:56:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|Money is important. But that's just point (5).2/17/2005 08:59:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|Yesterday, I was supposed to meet Mr. Friend for a 9:45pm movie at Lido. I got home from work and took a nap. By the time I woke up, it was 9:55pm and he had left 5 smses on my handphone.
What time are we meeting?
At dinner at Prima now.
Hello??
Helloooooooooooo?? Sleeping ar?!
Sleepingggggggggg????
Whoopsie doo. Brought him to Clarke Quay and Boat Quay instead. He brought his colleague to introduce to me because he had mentioned earlier that he was cute and I wanted to see a cute Malaysian guy for once. Harrrlooooo? Which part was cute? The bad Ingris, the tubbiness, the shortness or the weird jaw?
I mentioned this before in my old blog that guys are stupid when it comes to judging whether their guy friends can make it or cannot make it. I have realised, a guy will always say his buddies are hamsem and will never say they're ugly as fuck.
For example, The Bug intro'd me to his friend so that I could intro his friend to my girlfriend (who's pretty and speaketh good Ingris). The Bug said his friend is damn cute, well off, smart and well spoken.
LIAR!!
His friend was shorter than me, Ingris cannot make it and ugly as fuck. There was also something wrong with his eyes, because my two sisters, who were present during the introduction, couldn't stop giggling. It looked like he was wearing eyeliner or kohl or something but The Bug insisted it was thick eyelashes.
So the next time a guy friend of mine wants to introduce me to his oh-so-hamsem-funny-rich-well spoken guy friend, thy shalt not believe him.
|W|P|110860281280094100|W|P|Cute friend? Don't Bluff!|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/17/2005 10:34:00 AM|W|P| wyjunkie|W|P|ha ha, you poor thing... at least it was funny (in retrospect).2/17/2005 10:59:00 AM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|don't think you want to get intro to somoene who is said to be "not handsome, speaks bad english etc", right?2/17/2005 11:35:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Aiyo again! LOL Yeah, guys are so blind when it comes to fugly friends. They can not be objective when it comes to who's a dork and who's not. I've seen this sooo many times & it's not funny anymore. Old ladies are the same way. They think some dude is so handsome and smart & they usually turn out to be extraordinarily thrifty cheapskates and wear dorky clothes. Who needs a nerd?! Not moi2/17/2005 11:50:00 AM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|Well, I guess guys are bad at judging other guys because we look at women too much.2/17/2005 12:31:00 PM|W|P| Indiana|W|P|ohhh and girls are just so honest about their friends as well..2/17/2005 02:10:00 PM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|Maybe a good test question to ask such guy friends is, "If you were gay, would you be interested in this friend that you are introducing to me ?"
But ladies are guilty of false advertising too. Apparently, "She looks sweet" applies to just about any lass with two eyes, a nose and a mouth.2/17/2005 06:08:00 PM|W|P| Tetanus|W|P|Inex - I second that.2/17/2005 07:47:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|Eh, of course if a guy want to intro you guys, then he will definitely not say ugly one mah. Then again, if a guy is not that nice looking but speaks wonderful English, he'd still has a chance eh? Hehe.2/16/2005 08:43:00 AM|W|P|FF|W|P|Yesterday, my friend arrived from Malaysia for a business trip. I was the ever gracious hostess and took him out.
Our first stop was Marche, where we had soft shell crab tempura, rusti and cheese sausages. Then, we went to Balaclava for a pint of beer. I asked him to check out the Singaporean chicks and he said "Ugh, once you've seen Penang chicks, other chicks cannot compare". Ahem. I beamed cos you all know where I'm from. He made an observation that typical Singaporean chicks mostly look alike - overplucked eyebrows, overmade face, skinny, no hips, tight tank top and jeans.
We headed to dbl O where we had vodka orange and shooters and more beer. B-52s, Quick Fucks and Illusions are the best shooters I've tasted. Forget tequila shots, which taste like shit and make your tummy feel really hot. I giggled when he ordered a Quick Fuck. It really doesn't take much to amuse me.
I got home past 2am and puked all my rusti and sausages out, so much so I clogged the sink. Yes, ewwwwww. Why didn't I use the toilet bowl? Cos I didn't know I'd puke so much lah!
I now have the mother of all hangovers. And Mr. Friend wants a repeat of last night tonight.
|W|P|110851519666123994|W|P|Ouch, Pass Me A Panadol|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/16/2005 10:34:00 AM|W|P| JellyGirl|W|P|Ouch just listening about your big night out sounds painful. I can't do these big week nights anymore, I become such a zombie at work the next day. :)
PS I LOVE the rosti from Marche. And the mushroom soup.2/16/2005 11:37:00 AM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|hey, make sure you drink lots of water before you go to sleep.. Go drink lots of water now.. will make the hangover less bad.
whats in a quick fuck?
Singapore girls are like coming from templates liao.2/16/2005 11:37:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|FF you managed to gross even me out. Try those new gel drain openers if yer still clogged later.Those work best. My shooter of choice is Limoncello. They kick ass. Hope I never puke from those,cause then I'd never drink them again & I lurve 'em.2/16/2005 12:15:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|My friend complained the same thing about Singapore girls too. He always says the same thing:
"Aiyo. No backside one."2/16/2005 05:29:00 PM|W|P| Stephen|W|P|you being so truthful and honest is so hot.2/16/2005 05:59:00 PM|W|P| littlecartnoodles|W|P|Can't comment on Penang lasses. Those that i know are in Singapore - my cousins lor.
Mr Friend will be even more disappointed if he ever comes to Hong Kong.2/16/2005 07:48:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|So can I assume that Penang lasses like drinking then? Hehe.2/17/2005 12:16:00 AM|W|P| Cowboy Caleb|W|P|hahaha padan muka engkau buahahahahaha2/14/2005 08:12:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|I went for kickboxing class today and shitness to hell, I could only muster enough energy for 45 mins of kickboxing. I gave up and went to take a shower. It was probably because I went for a one hour hip hop class before that. Yes, I'm sure I could have completed the class had I not gone for hip hop. I must complete the class. I cannot believe a few old ladies there could complete the damned class and I couldn't. Grrr. K. I. A. S. U.
The kickboxing instructor was skinny (I do not like skinny guys) and he was not hamsem (I do not like non-hamsem guys) and he was tanned (I do not like tanned guys) but once he started the moves, baby, I melted and started drooling. P. A. I. K. I. A. I envisioned him in a smoky bar, using those oh so sexy kickboxing moves on a group of guys who were causing trouble.
God, what is it with me and paikias?
Kickboxing is so sexy. Guys, please go take up kickboxing. I want to drool some more.
Update:
I like pretty flowers. Thank you GJ.
|W|P|110838365199112380|W|P|You Can Kickbox Me Anytime Baby|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/14/2005 11:03:00 PM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|Wow, you mean by moving like Bruce Lee, girls who like pai.kias would swoon over me? Wait I go try.2/15/2005 09:30:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|What's a hip hop class?
Does this teach you how to dance like Usher, Justin & Brittney?2/15/2005 11:31:00 AM|W|P| Mandrake|W|P|I went thru the class before. good workout indeed. but mine was with a female instructor. I amazed myself by being able to go thru the one hour lesson.2/15/2005 12:11:00 PM|W|P| JellyGirl|W|P|Ooh where do you go for hip-hop class? I've been looking for a place to learn.2/15/2005 12:59:00 PM|W|P| FF|W|P|Jay>> Yes indeed. Faster go!
Spired>> 800 calories per one hour session.
SPG>> Are you sure?? I go for New Body class too, where they tone arms, butt, legs and tummy.
Meow>> Yes, choreographed moves for one hour to hip hop songs.
Bubs>> It's ok, I just like looking. No need to touch.
Mandrake>> I'm impressed. I was ready to give up after half hour but forced myself to go on for 15 more mins.
Fruity and Jelly>> Amore Fitness. I prefer not to be in a mixed class. Will be too concious of my moves if there are guys present.2/15/2005 05:18:00 PM|W|P| Darren|W|P|When are you ready to spar?2/15/2005 07:35:00 PM|W|P| None|W|P|i love sporty women. lol2/15/2005 10:33:00 PM|W|P| Zen|th|W|P|I took up Taek Kwon Do once. Hmm.. now all I need is to become bad.2/17/2005 06:36:00 PM|W|P| eyes|W|P|Cineleisure Amore.
Sat, 9.30am, New body class.
The instructor is not skinny, quite hamsem and not too tanned. Only drawback is he is a bit short though.
His workout session is quite good
:P2/13/2005 10:57:00 PM|W|P|FF|W|P|Happy Valentine's Day my lovely ones! Many of us singles may curse Saint Valentine for inflicting emotional and psychological trauma, but curse no more, because I will tell you the history of Valentine's Day and I'm sure you will empathise with the poor soul. Click on "More more more!" for the story.
See! If you can still curse the kind soul who fought for marriages of young horny men, then you don't deserve to be loved!
And as usual, I asked some people to define love in one sentence:
Tetanus: love is the warmth that wraps around the winter in my heart
Mr. Miyagi: love is the irresistable desire to be irresistably desired (Robert Frost)
My gf E: love is nothing but a crazy n powerful energy that affects animals
My sis Banana: love is mummy making apple tarts just for me when i ask her to
My friend Mike: love is like the feeling u get before u get drunk
Me: love is when rascal pees and poos all over the house and I don't get mad, I just spank her
Anyway, I decided to take a day off from work tomorrow and will be going to the gym and will brave disgusting roses carrying couples tomorrow and watch Constantine on my own. Good luck to me!
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
|W|P|110831032996460563|W|P|Happy V-Day!|W|P|ms.finicky@gmail.com2/14/2005 02:09:00 AM|W|P| CatWoman|W|P|Happy Valentines Day.
Love is when U rant & rave about something & your real friends don't take it personally, and they know U R just venting.
Love is a Starbucks Tall Chantico!!2/14/2005 07:00:00 AM|W|P| Jayaxe|W|P|Hey who knows you might just get lucky at the gym? Heh.
Happy V-Day too!2/14/2005 09:25:00 AM|W|P|